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They Got To You Too - Futhi Ntshingila
I must begin this entry by mentioning that I read this book in a record 4 days. I bathed with it, sat in the grass under the trees with...
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Nov 26, 20232 min read
Believe in yourself
One of the most moving quotes in this entire series comes in episode 7 where Gogo gives us one random piece of advice. She says “The...
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Nov 19, 20232 min read
Grief, and other complications
On the 6th episode of Conversations with my Grandmother, Gogo and I talk about grief, and how no matter how many losses you have...
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Nov 12, 20232 min read
Don't let peer pressure make you pop
I remember one afternoon, I was telling my uncle the story of how our former next door neighbour’s son got hooked on drugs as a result of...
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Nov 5, 20233 min read
My mother was a kitchen girl
My grandmother worked as a domestic worker from the tender age of 20 until she was in her 60’s. I experienced her as an employed woman...
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Oct 29, 20234 min read
Loving after loss
My grandmother was 33 when she was widowed with 5 children to raise. This presented a myriad of problems and unimaginable anxiety. The...
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Oct 22, 20232 min read
Period Shame, The Real Stain On Society’s Jeans
The first question I asked my Grandmother in this episode is when she got her period. I was 11 when I got my first period. I had been...
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